This idea about overgeneralizing stood out to me because it is very typical human behavior for most of us, we tend to generalize our thoughts about a person, an idea or even an event instead of just looking at at the grey areas in between the black and white, or just considering that we may have just a fragment of information about the subject in question. How many times I have looked at someone differently after hearing someone's observation or critique, almost looking for evidence that this is true. It could be something as small as someone telling you "they are very greedy," all of a sudden you are looking for evidence of greed in that persons life. Once you think you see something that aligns with what you heard, say that person asks you to grab lunch or you notice a particular behavior that might look greedy, now you have all the evidence you need to confirm "yes, this person is greedy", and "yep they were right, she certainly is greedy." Now the whole of that person is greedy and everything they do is motivated by greed somehow. The mind now filters that person as a greedy person, and you begin to see them through this filter, almost everything they do can seem like it's motivated by greed. Even when they appear to do something that looks giving or unselfish we may suspect something else as even their motivations are scrutinized.
A boy liked to come over to his neighbors house often to visit. The two were friends and the older man liked the boy. One day the man was out at his garage making repairs to his gutter with his shiny new hammer. He became thirsty and went in for a drink, when he came back out he found his hammer was gone. The man looked across the fence and there was the boy next door out playing in his yard. The man went to get another hammer but made keen note of the fact that the boy didn't come over all afternoon. As a matter of fact, he didn't even look the old mans way that day.The old man became very disappointed as he noticed the boy did not come over the next 2 days to visit. This was obviously guilty behavior and the old man became sure the boy stole his hammer. On the third day the boy did come over and the man observed that he wasn't saying as much as usual, and seemed to be behaving erratically. He even saw the boy avoiding eye contact.A few days later, the man was out at his garage on a windy day and noticed that there was something metallic shining through the leaves. He walked over and found that the hammer was exactly where he had put it a few days ago, on the ground, but covered up by the leaves of fall which he had not raked up yet.
So what's the point of all this? I have none. Some ideas may be that many stories and parables are designed to make a point, but by making one point we are automatically denying someone's reality or experience. Maybe another idea is that you while your trying to tell a story about someone, something or some idea, you may be narrowly trying to prove some point or value you have while objectifying certain ideas or people in the process. Sounds like something to consider anyway. Mostly I just thought the wolf got a bad rap for just being a wolf.
Something else the story made me think of is the observation that as I get older I have less of a desire to make a point. When I was younger my whole existence screamed to make a point, and oddly enough most of them where wrong even though I would have bet my very life, and yours, on the notion that I was as right as rain. As I get older I spend much of my time trying to unlearn all that I thought was so solid and along the way have less a desire to make a point.